Good luck with everything. Three weeks is a long time with a catheter, but it will be worth it in the long run! I urge anyone going through the same struggles to have Urethroplasty. In my case, as well as a lot of others, it’s not as bad as it sounds ( so far ) No matter how my follow up or future goes, I’m happy with my decision. My only regret is waiting as long as I did .