Thanks CLayton. Very sagely advice for patience and time.
The scrotum was unusually bruised/swollen from my understanding from the surgical team so I thought I’d still ask. It keeps looking better, but progress has been slow. Time and patience as you suggest.
Fortunately, the foley is the least problematic. Érections are nearly non-existant thanks to a conversation with my doctor prior to surgery. The pain killer type and dosage of the vallium are removing any chance of it. I will get names of drugs /dosages and post for users.
I will look/have someone pick up for the constipation items. I’m still not too worried the first couple of days I didn’t really eat- I have severe allergies the hospital didn’t accommodate despite ample time and warnings.
Can’t thank-you enough Clayton. Best wishes.