Hi,
I’m very sorry to hear that – I had to go through a urethroplasty as well and the whole process was very difficult. End-to-end urethroplasty has a 99% success rate. If yours did not work out, it is your doctor’s fault. Can I recommend looking up Dr. Gelman in Orange, CA? He did mine (BMG replacement urethroplasty) and it was a success. He is one of the friendliest, professional doctors I have seen as well, and he would answer questions by email or phone anytime of the day or night – literally, I emailed him on a Sunday evening at 9 pm once about a wound healing issue and within minutes he replied asking to see pictures so he could assess whether it was something to be concerned about!
Anyway, I hope you are successful with whatever doctor you choose, but I know the success of this surgery depends a lot on experience and skill.
Peter